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Fisting 101 + Coming Out, Living with HIV in a Post-PrEP World, Becoming a Sex Worker & Writing "...

For the 133rd episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak revisits a favorite conversation with Alexander Cheves — sex writer, sex worker, sex educator, and author of My Love is a Beast: Confessions (https://bookshop.org/a/85623/9780991378036) — for LGBT History Month.

In addition to fisting 101 tips, Alex shares his experiences coming out, living with HIV in a post-PrEP world (vs. in the 80s or even ten years ago), becoming a sex worker, becoming a sex writer, and writing his memoir My Love is a Beast: Confessions. We also discuss tips for exploring kink, how the pandemic shifted his perspective on the fluidity of his sexuality, and why he recently moved to Berlin, Germany.

For more Alexander Cheves:



• Check out Alex's website alexander-cheves.com (https://www.alexander-cheves.com/)



• Check out Alex's sex advice blog lovebeastly.com (https://lovebeastly.com/)



• Buy Alex's book My Love is a Beast: Confessions (https://bookshop.org/a/85623/9780991378036)



• Follow Alexander Cheves on Twitter @BadAlexCheves (https://twitter.com/BadAlexCheves)



• Follow Alexander Cheves on Instagram @badalexcheves (https://www.instagram.com/badalexcheves/)


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