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Episodes

Aug. 1, 2018

Matthew Solomon on His New Book "Man School: Relating with Women in the #MeToo Era"

For the 3rd episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is thrilled to welcome relationship coach & author Matthew Solomon to discuss his new book Man School: Relating with Women in the...
July 25, 2018

Jessica Michelle Singleton on Breakups, Self-Imposed Celibacy & Her New Solo Show "Codependent Arising"

For the 2nd episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is thrilled to welcome standup comedian & host of the Ignorance is #Blessed podcast Jessica Michelle Singleton to talk about her new...
July 18, 2018

Greg Behrendt & Amiira Ruotola on How to Keep Your Marriage From Sucking

For the 1st episode of season 4, your fearless triad – Courtney Kocak, along with new co-hosts Sofiya Alexandra & Dave Rankin – is thrilled to welcome relationship self-help gurus & real-life married couple Greg Behrendt & Amiira...
Feb. 14, 2018

Our Significant Others, Julia Loken & Wade, on Meet Cutes & What It's Like to Be Fodder for a Relationship Podcast

*We apologize for the delay in releasing this final episode. There was an issue with Wade's sound that we were hoping to fix, but alas, this is the best we could do. Also maybe we didn't want it to be over. ;) Enjoy! REALITY BYTES is a show about sex,...
Feb. 7, 2018

Joy Nash on the Importance of Having a Great Relationship with Yourself

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 21st episode of season 3, the pair welcome actress Joy Nash (Dietland,...
Jan. 31, 2018

Logan Pierce (aka J.R. Verlin) on the Incorrect Stereotype of Women Sex Workers, a Gang Bang Gone Wrong & His New Book "Between the Sheets: Rise of a Working Stiff"

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 20th episode of season 3, the duo chat with porn actor & debut...
Jan. 24, 2018

Riley Silverman on Being a Standup Coming Out "On the Job" as Trans & Bi, Shifting on the Kinsey Scale Post-Transition & No-Fault Breakups

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 19th episode of season 3, the pair welcome comedian & writer Riley...
Jan. 17, 2018

Paul Gilmartin on Getting Sober, Dealing with Divorce & How to Be a Good Partner to Someone Struggling with Depression

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 18th episode of season 3, the duo chat with former host of Dinner and a...
Jan. 10, 2018

Tao Ruspoli on the Paradox of Monogamy & His New Documentary "Monogamish"

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 17th episode of season 3, the pair chop it up with filmmaker,...
Jan. 3, 2018

Maggie West & Her Sexbot Luci on the Overhyped Millennial Sex Slump, Media Satire & Cardinal Rules for Sexting

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 16th episode of season 3, the duo welcome photographer extraordinaire...
Dec. 27, 2017

D'Lo on Coming Out (Twice), the Question: to T or Not to T & the Power of Testosterone Against Tears

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 15th episode of season 3, the pair go deep with D'Lo, queer/transgender...
Dec. 20, 2017

Whitmer Thomas on Breakups, Breakthroughs & Just Wanting to Get Back to Fucking All His Friends

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 14th episode of season 3, the duo sit down with comedian &...
Dec. 13, 2017

Swipe Out's Alix McAlpine on Faux Relationship Mindfucks & How Cupid Killed Her Podcast

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 13th episode of season 3, the pair sit down with Alix McAlpine, host of...
Dec. 6, 2017

Live Show with Jaclyn Friedman on Her New Book "Unscrewed: Women, Sex, Power, and How to Stop Letting the System Screw Us All"

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 12th episode of season 3, the duo are thrilled to interview author, sex...
Nov. 29, 2017

Kasey Koop on Happy Strippers, Sex Addiction, Sobriety & How Social Media is Straight Up Drugs

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 11th episode of season 3, the pair sit down with very funny comedian,...
Nov. 22, 2017

Sexual Harassment & Assault Round Table with Barbara Gray & Alana Hope Levinson on Weinstein, Franken & Louis C.K.'s "I Love You, Daddy" Mea Culpa

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 10th episode of season 3, the duo welcome Barbara Gray (very funny...
Nov. 15, 2017

Jamie Loftus on Losing Her Virginity, Potential Surrogacy & Her Feminist Movie Podcast "The Bechdel Cast"

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 9th episode of season 3, the pair chat with comedian, animator &...
Nov. 8, 2017

Natalia Hailes & Ashley Spivak of Cycles + Sex on the Interconnectedness of Our Sexual, Menstrual, Hormonal & Reproductive Health

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 8th episode of season 3, the duo welcome birth doulas & reproductive...
Nov. 1, 2017

Sara Schaefer on Confronting Her Internet Troll, Going Through the Stages of Divorce & LTR Touch-Ups

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 7th episode of season 3, the pair welcome standup comedian & writer...
Oct. 25, 2017

Eli Olsberg on Being Poly, Physical v. Emotional Jealousy, Compersion, Sex Parties & His Monthly Show at the Pleasure Chest

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 6th episode of season 3, the dynamic duo welcome very funny stand up...
Oct. 18, 2017

Atsuko Okatsuka on Her New Marriage & Why Her Husband Didn't Take Her Last Name

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 5th episode of season 3, the pair welcome stand up comedian, actress...
Oct. 11, 2017

Dan Gill on How He Proposed & Wedding Planning Tips from a Modern Groomzilla

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 4th episode of season 3, the duo welcome standup comedian, actor &...
Oct. 4, 2017

Andy Haynes on Breaking Bad Relationship Patterns, Post-Divorce Adulting & the Entitlement of Modern Sexuality

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. For the 3rd episode of season 3, the pair welcome guest Andy Haynes - a standup...
Sept. 27, 2017

Maggie West & Whitney Bell (aka Kidd Bell) on the Intersection of Gender, Sexuality & Art, Why Street Hollering Sucks & Becoming Fast BFFs

REALITY BYTES is a show about sex, love, relationships & dating in the digital age, hosted by Courtney Kocak & Steve Hernandez, produced in partnership with JASH. The duo are back for episode 2 of the 3rd season with best friends & return...